Travelling on my own… well, it gives me the space to refocus and refresh my mind and soul.
I have learned a different self confidence…and therein is the gift of going solo. You really are present to yourself, mindful of your thoughts.
I have learned a different self confidence; the confidence to be alone but not lonely. Being part of a group of people on holiday, is much the same as being at home with family, or at work. You still have to consider and compromise for someone else. Alone, there is none of that and therein is the gift of going solo. You really are present to yourself, mindful of your thoughts. If you are not content in your own company, travelling alone would be frustrating and perhaps a sad experience; every day longing for the company of someone to direct your thoughts.
Before deciding to take a week away on my own, I asked the only question that I needed to ask. What do I want? Life is busy, life can create stress, fatigue, complacency. What I wanted was the time to escape the every day – and here I have found my perfect, uninterrupted retreat.
Being a solo guest, simply gives those who are here as part of a couple or small group someone to wonder about – use this curiosity to your favour. As most of the guests here are Italian, Swedish, German or French, I automatically establish my Scottish accent and warm personality with the staff to great benefit. You become a firm favourite and other guests notice this – now you can pretend whoever you want to be. A famous author, actress or heiress, it doesn’t matter but it adds a mischievous take on your holiday. Wear a wide brimmed hat and glasses when around other guests and this adds to your holiday persona of mystery.